happie happie :)

  We had this prelims for all the events for the upcoming College culturals "MILAN-2009" today  and i had taken part in the solo classical music event. The competition went on for a couple of hours and finally i was selected for the finals. The finals is going to be held on the 14th of this month and I am praying that i must come first in this event. Just wanted to share this happie happie moment with my blog buddies! 

TAG TAG TAGGIE....!

Rules:
It's harder than it looks! Copy to your own note, erase my answers, enter yours, and tag ten people.Use the first letter of your name to answer each of the following questions. They have to be real...nothing made up! If the person before you had the same first initial, you must use different answers. You cannot use any word twice and you can't use your name for the boy/girl name question.

1. What is your name : Jayashree
2. A four Letter Word : jump
3. A boy's Name : Jayaraman
4. A girl's Name : Janani
5. An occupation : Jockey
6. A color : jasmin wisp
7. Something you'll wear : jacket
8. A food: jelly
9. Something found in the bathroom: Johnson & Johnson baby soap
10. A place: Japan
11. A reason for being late : jam-traffic jam
12. Something you'd shout : jumbo (ppl call me like that :P)
13. A movie title : Jeans
14. Something you drink : Jaljeera paani
15. A musical group : jayzee -JZ
16. An animal : Jackal
17. A street name : Jayalalitha nagar (:P) lolz
18. A type of motor : no idea!
19. The title of a song : Jingada jinga jee bumba
haah! that was pretty interesting i must agree. try this out and you will hav fun answering it!
I tag this asusual to all my blog buddies!

PEEL 50 - the smallest car in the world !

Did you ever know ...............................?

      Peel engineering limited was established in the 1950s and was best known for the production of P50 and trident motor cars.

The P50 still holds the record for being the smallest 

 production car in the world.

At the peak of production Peel Engineering employed 40 people. The company started off engineering fibreglass motorcycle fairings before moving into motor parts and boat hulls.

The P50 was designed and built by Cyril Cannell and Henry Kissack, and launched at the 1962 Earls Court Motorcycle show.

now...that's something interesting..isn't it??

THE MORAL OF THE STORY IS........

        Here is an ecxellent piece of stupid joke ( i dont dare call it a joke but then i'm sure you wil certainly laugh at it). This i actually recieved as an sms from one of my pals who is usually good at these stuffs-the witty or rather insane smsing..

  

The sms short story goes like this (story writer:sudarshan) :

  Story line: How a crow can damage your life 

There is a power-cut all of a sudden, and having nothing else to do, suda alias sudarshan falls asleep. There are too many disturbances around-noises-phone bell rings- mom gossips- and gossips- and gossips- grandmom making noises - birds chirping- kids playing - suda(the hero of this story) lost his cool and kicked the bero in rage. leg damage...TENSION all over!

Now where does the crow come into picture...? here's where : the crow bit some wire in transformer, the transformer burst..leading to this power-cut...crow died...suda cried...!!

MORAL OF THE STORY IS : Don't sleep on afternoons, especially during power cuts!!

    well, now, i can see that you are wondering if suda is insane or it is me who really is...to post this stupid sms here and call it a joke. But you know, at times such small msgs can make you laugh when you are stressed or depressed. I was just not having a good time this afternoon wen this msg just made me laugh and i decided to share this moment with my blog buddies. And as this story teller usually quotes... 

"TAKE IT LITE" !!!

STRESS MANAGEMENT

Stress - This is the word that spoils everything - career,relationship,friendship etc. I had shared my views with regard to stress management, hope you'll find this useful.Stress is a psychological state that affects the immune system.

In this fast moving world, there is connection between stress and vulnerability to viral infections such as colds is widely recognized. For example, cold,fever & flu rates increase among students during exam periods. Can you find why? The reason is due to stress which keeps down the immune system.Keeping a positive outlook on life can help to overcome the weakening of the immune system. Stress develops depression. Depression affects learning and memory.

So it is essential to manage the stress. Stress can be managed through a healthy lifestyle, including physical exercise, humour which keeps in control the blood level flow which gets increased to brain,muscles and heart due to stress. Men and women handle stress in different dimensions. While men tend to isolate themselves from others, women will turn to relatives/friends for help to get rid of the stress.




Some quick tips & tricks to overcome this stress:
1. Humor therapy - Keep yourself a sense of humour.
2. Listening to your favourite music which can calm your mind.
3. Exercising daily - in the early morning(Physical exercise helps to strengthen brain cells).
4. Cultivate the habit of learning new skills daily.
5. Commitment to listening plus to teach something you know.
6. You shouldn't make/feel yourself depressed as depressing harms brain function.
7. Also you need to be in your weight -not under/over weight which helps you to think faster (See the people in japan/china who are neither under nor over weight and just see their working potential - japan -2nd in economy, china =hardware)..Slim a bit to think faster.
8. Just try to greet back the people whoever greet you, don't always expect someone to greet you, that shows you are not easy moving. Include some good soft skills within you to improve your career skills.
9. Think before you start anything so that you needn't stress yourself later. Strategically thinking & Visualizing - very important ingredients of life.
10. Proper sleep is essential for acquiring new knowledge and learning new skills. So sleep proper to reach top levels.Overall if you try to implement full-brain engagement then there is no room for stress.
11.yoga,prayers & aerobics are some of the best stress management therapies.

I welcome your points/views/feedback on the same.
thank you!

Know about the INDIAN REPUBLIC DAY !

Even before the Independence of India from the British rule on August 15, 1947, january 26th was celebrating in a different context. "It was the Lahore Session of the Indian National Congress at midnight of December 31, 1929-January 1, 1930 that the tri-color flag was unfurled by the nationalists and a pledge taken that every year on january 26, the Independence day would be celebrated and that the people would unceasingly strive for the establishment of a sovereign Democratic REPUBLIC OF INDIA.

India became a republic and the constitution came into force on January 26, 1950. The Constituent Assembly was convened and appointed a committee with Dr.B.R.Ambedkar as chairman to draft the constitution. India declared herself to be a sovereign Democratic republic. The Indian Constitution, the longest in the world, consist 397 articles and 12 schedules, which provides for a single citizenship for the whole of INDIA.

HAPPY REPUBLIC DAY...JAI HIND!!!

Should i call it a JOKE or a REALITY ??

HR Heaven and Hell :

One day while walking down the street a highly successful HR Directorwas tragically hit by a bus and she died. Her soul arrived up in heavenwhere she was met at the Pearly Gates by St. Peter himself."Welcome to Heaven," said St. Peter. "Before you get settled in though,it seems we have a problem. You see, strangely enough, we've never oncehad a Human Resources Director make it this far and we're not reallysure what to do with you.""No problem, just let me in," said the woman. "Well, I'd like to,"replied St. Peter, "but I have higher orders. What we're going to do islet you have a day in Hell and a day in Heaven and then you can choosewhichever one you want to spend an eternity in.""Actually, I think I've made up my mind, I prefer to stay in Heaven,"said the woman."Sorry, we have rules..." And with that St. Peter put the executive inan elevator and it went down-down-down to hell. The doors opened and shefound herself stepping out onto the putting green of a beautiful golfcourse. In the distance was a country club and standing in front of herwere all her friends - fellow executives that she had worked with andthey were all dressed in evening gowns and cheering for her. They ran upand kissed her on both cheeks and they talked about old times. Theyplayed an excellent round of golf and at night went to the country clubwhere she enjoyed an excellent steak and lobster dinner. She met theDevil who was actually a really nice guy (kinda cute) and she had agreat time telling jokes and dancing. She was having such a good timethat before she knew it, it was time to leave. Everybody shook her handand waved good-bye as she got on the elevator. The elevator wentup-up-up and opened back up at the Pearly Gates and she found St. Peterwaiting for her."Now it's time to spend a day in heaven," he said. So she spent the next24 hours lounging around on clouds and playing the harp and singing. Shehad a great time and before she knew it her 24 hours were up and St.Peter came and got her. "So, you've spent a day in hell and you've spenta day in heaven. Now you must choose your eternity," he said. The womanpaused for a second and then replied, "Well, I never thought I'd saythis, I mean, Heaven has been really great and all, but I think I had abetter time in Hell." So St. Peter escorted her to the elevator andagain she went down-down-down back to Hell.When the doors of the elevator opened she found herself standing in adesolate wasteland covered in garbage and filth. She saw her friendswere dressed in rags and were picking up the garbage and putting it insacks. The Devil came up to her and put his arm around her."I don't understand," stammered the woman, "yesterday I was here andthere was a golf course and a country club and we ate lobster and wedanced and had a great time. Now all there is, is a wasteland of garbageand all my friends look miserable."The Devil looked at her and smiled. "Yesterday we were recruiting you,today you're staff..."

The Boring Days Once Again :(

If you had been a regular visitor of my blog, you would surely know by now, what the heading of this post could possibly mean. If you have guessed it right...yes, it is about my EXAMS. Remember reading something about my exams being postponed due to the heavy rains in chennai couple of weeks ago? That was one of those happiest days on which i posted about enjoying the postponement of exams...and now the time has come to mourn about it.
Having exams right at the beginning of a new semester is THE MOST TORTURING thing that a student can face. And i'm one of those unluckiest students struggling to get back from the holiday mood and start preparing for the exam. But i must say, this has'nt stopped me from enjoying all the Pongal special programs on TV [:P] . Anyways, just thought i'd share my sad days with my pals to get geared up! :P
Pray for my doing well in the exams and wish me gud luck to get an easy paper! :P:P
adioz!

TAG YOURSELF FOR A RAPIDFIRE ROUND!!!

I was tagged by shalini eons ago to do this one . Now that I have been running out of topics to post, I thought I’d take up this tag and pass it on to all my blog buddies as well.

RULE #1 People who have been tagged must write their answers on their blogs and replace any question that they dislike with a new question formulated by themselves.

RULE #2 Tag 6 people to do this quiz and those who are tagged cannot refuse. These people must state who they were tagged by and cannot tag the person whom they were tagged by continue this game by sending it to other people.


1. If your lover betrayed you, what will your reaction be?
will try to be practical and go on wid life. After all, life has to move on!

2. If you can have a dream come true, what would it be?
To become a great vocalist( my mum’s dream actually)

3. Why do you blog?
A great time pass..and it has helped me discover my new interest in writing

4. Will you fall in love with your best friend?
Yea, why not ? ;) But then on a second thought I would only if its going to turn out to be a relationship and not spoil the friendship we already have.

5. Which is more blessed: loving someone or being loved by someone?
Being loved …without a doubt!

6. How long do you intend to wait for someone you love?
Right things happen at the right time. So, waiting should’nt be a problem how ever long it is..

7. Would you ask out the person whom you like?
Not really…but if I’m being asked, I would not deny it either! :P :P

8. What do you want to be known for when you die?
A great woman in all ways! ( like how my grandmom was known for everything she did)

9. What takes you down the fastest? 

Anger

 
10. What resurrects you the fastest? 

a) Music

b) Being wid friends.

11. What’s your fear?

Examsssssssssssssssssssssss! And their results!! L

12. What kind of person do you think the person who tagged you is?

A sweeeeeet friend…

 

 13.Would you rather be single and rich or married and poor?
An absurd question! I don’t wish to answer this! :p

15. If you fall in love with two people simultaneously who will you pick?
The one who loves me !

16. Would you give all in a relationship?
absolutely everything!

17. Would you forgive and forget someone no matter how horrible a thing he has done?
I don’t think I can forgive someone that easily.

18. Do you prefer being single or in a relationship?
stay single as long as u can and stay committed once ur into a relationship! [:P]

 

19. Who/what inspired you to start blogging?
My close pal Shalini...the one who tagged me..

Now, i pass on this tag to all my blog followers.

HAPPIE 2009 :)

 May year 2009   open up for you more opportunities, lead you onto the path of continued success, happiness and prosperity!

I wish ... that the coming year showers on you all that you ever wished for!

 Good luck and smiles, good cheer and...

 

 With Best Wishes- 

JAYASHREE

MY TRIP TO GOA BANGALORE...!

Hi people..I had been wanting to write about my goa-bangalore IV tour since the time i came back but unfortunately the exams had kept me away from writing it. And now, its not that easy to recollect everything coherently and post it here. But glad that one of my friends (also a blogger) has been writing about the tour and here's the link http://mytravelchronicle.blogspot.com/ for those who wish to read our wonderful tour experiences.

The music season...

The long awaited music season- december season as we all call it, is starting to get heated up across chennai with all the sabhas and fine arts organising great concerts for this margazhi maasam. And no doubt i'm thoroughly excited about attending as many concerts as possible this time. It's usually been impossible for me to attend concerts every december as my exams wud always be on the run keeping me away from them, but this time luckily its all over and i've already planned a schedule for when and where i'll be going to listen to those wonderful kutcheris. And for those who expect me to write reviews on the concerts i attend, i'm really sorry that i hav never attempted to write any before, coz i feel i am not good at it. but then, let me try this time in my blog space and hope you all like it. This is wishing all the music lovers "A Happy December" and hope to see you all here discussing music!

TIME PASS

What have you realized recently?
Future is really unpredictable.

Have you given your first kiss away ?
obviously yes..."amma ku dan"

If you were to be stranded on a deserted island, who are the 11 blog buddies you would take?
well, i just know a very few of the bloggers personally and those wud be topping my list.

The place you want to go the most?
Goa ofcourse(can't forget that trip...awesome it was)

If you have one dream to come true, what would it be?
as i hav quoted in many of my posts, to become a great classical singer.

Do you believe in seeing the rainbow after the rain?
i hav seen it a couple of times..

What are you afraid of losing the most now?
my concentration in studies....[:P]

If you win $1 million, what would you do?
definitely a big amount wud be fr charity and the rest fr luxury!

If you meet someone that you love, would you confess to him/her?
ofcourse yes!

List out 3 good points about the person who tagged you
shalini-a great friend of mine
very sweet as i always say
my blogging guru :P

What are the requirements that you wish from your other half?
well, as every other gal expects, LOVE, CARE, a gud UNDERSTANDING of each other and ofcourse a little handsome too!

What type of people do you hate the most?
those who betray...untrustworthy friends

What is the one thing you can’t live without?
"one" is not the right word here, i hav loads of 'em that i cant live without.

If you have faults, would you rather the people around you point out to you or would you rather they keep quiet?
I'd take it from anybody if i'm really wrong. else, they've had it from me...!

Are you a shopaholic or not?
Shopping is one thing I can never say no to..

Find a word to describe the person who tagged
a repetition again-"SWEET"

If you have a chance, which part of your character you would like to change?
i'm really short tempered and i wish i change it soon!

What’s the last shocking thing you’ve seen or heard?
nothing really has shocked me offlate.

Would you rather have love but no money or money but no love?
LOVE BUT NO MONEY..."love is eternal" dont' u think so?


I tag all those of you who read this post. Please drop by a comment when you take up this tag as i would love to read your answers.

My Musical Journey....!

Becoming a famous singer has always been my dream, rather my mum's wish i wud say. and now that i hav given quite a few performances on stage, i am happy that i hav set my path towards my dream. As every singer says, my first guru was none other than my mum. yea, i still remember running around the house, blindly repeating the lines sung by her, in my own childish voice..little did she realise that i wud become the proud disciple of the gr8 living legend "smt.D.K.Pattammal" but then it didnt happen that soon. we shifted from mumbai to chennai, for my parents rightly thought it was always better to bring up a child under the luv and care of elders(especially the grand parents). and there began my real musical journey. i was in my 2nd std wen i attended my first formal music class and my teacher was ms.Ashwathi(disciple of smt.D.K.Pattammal). startin from the basics of carnatic music...SA RE GA MA....my learning process continued successfully for about 6 yrs under her teaching. one fine day, my teacher felt that it was the right time fr me to take up music a bit more seriously, in the sense..to persue it as my future career. and today i am really thankful to her for being so kind and pushing me a step forward in my musical journey. yea! she was the one who introduced me to my present guru , a gr8 celebrity whom i wud'nt hav even imagined of just meeting her in person, if not fr her.
its been a grrrrrrrr8 honour to learn from such a gr8 woman! but i was too young to realise her gr8ness wen i was a beginner. and she used to be such a loving and wonderful teacher, (i am too small to talk about her anyways, so i restrict myself for it wud be highly childish to comment on a legendary person). since then, i hav cum a loooong way in music and today, my parents feel really happy for their right decision at the rite time. the bombay life wud hav been more enjoyable but i wud'nt hav got this opportunity unless i was here...
though its been a real long way, as my guru always quotes "sangeetha saagaram" which means music is a never ending ocean and its a never ending learning process....i hav a long way to achieve atleast a very small part of wat my guru has done... for which i realize the amount of hard work to be done, and i'm sure i will live up to their(amma, appa and my guru) expectations and make my mum's wish cum true, very soon!

HOW DO YOU FEEL....!?!?!?

How do you feel when your dreams come true....or rather, when ur prayers are granted....thats how i am feeling right now! If you had gone through my previous post, you would know what i am talkin about......yessssss...its exacty about my exams getting postponed due to rains.

Its been pouring cats and dogs since the past three days and i'd been forced to study in such a cozy climate (though, i had not been studying actually). i was supposed to write my 4th exam for this sem tomorrow but i had hardly started my preparations. wat else had i been doing all day...nothing..literally nothing except fr changing the news channels looking for flash news about the chennai colleges declaring a holiday. and ofcourse another thing i did was to message or call my friends almost every half an hour to ensure that everyone of them were in the same state as mine..lolz!

I had almost quit studying for the day as i started recieving rumour msgs about the holiday. you may wonder when did i ever start studying to hav quit it...i just meant i had closed my books that had been lying open with the same page the entire day.. and finally the confirmation message had reached me. My class incharge sent a msg saying the exam on 28.11.2008 will be postponed and that its declared a holiday. I immediately called him up to confirm the message and there i was...on cloud 9(the rainy cloud 9-lolz).

I had been praying so badly that my exam must get cancelled somehow. It was a bad prayer actually...wishing that the heavy downpour must keep continuing so that the college management has no choice left but to declare a holiday....inspite of those poor people suffering due to floods and cyclone and all that. But my exam fear over dominated my sympathetic nature this time and i had to make such a bad wish!

But never mind, i believe a lot in my prayers coming true just as it did in this case.....so i sincerely pray the almighty once again today to stop the rains and set everything really fine and wish the needy meet their needs soon!

I'M NOT LIKING IT......!!

Oh my goodness....wats happening to me....boring semester exams...heavy rains...some of my friends hav already started enjoying their vacation...and ultimately no mood to study...i hav never been this way before....not studying at all leaving nearly 3 to 4 units untouched even till one hour before the exam...and on top of it all, the most irritating news channels that keep flashing -" schools and colleges are declared holiday due to heavy rains" but then...nothin of that sort happens in my college. And just the thought that it might be a holiday, leads to nowhere except wasting time. but what ever it is, an exam is going to be as bugging as ever...and how many ever times its going to be postponed, the time is still not going to be enough to complete the syllabus.....but what so ever...i am just not liking it...so just hoping everything wil be fine very soon...yeah, exams getting over is wat i mean...so that i can start enjoying too!

The most awaited MARGAZHI RAAGAM...!!

Carnatic music moves beyond its boundaries...

There are rare times when a classical art form moves past its well etched boundaries to present itself in a new medium with added sparkle and sheen. For Carnatic music this is that moment; the moment when timeless tradition chooses to don the attire of the times. The Kutcherry or the Carnatic Concert has now embraced the magic of cinema. For the first time ever, classical music of South India will beckon music lovers across the world from the silver screen - Margazhi Raagam.

The Artists
Renownwd carbatic musicians Bombay Jayashri and T.M.Krishna are the performing stars of "Margazhi Raga"

"Margazhi Raagam" ---> enjoy carnatic music like never before!!

LAUGH OUT LOUDLY...(lol) !!!!!!!!!!

Killing English ......

Principal to student..." I saw u yesterday rotating near girls hostel pulling cigerette... ? "

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Class teacher once said :" pick up the paper and fall in the dustbin!!!"

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"..DON'T TRY TO TALK IN FRONT OF MY BACK.."

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dont..laugh at the back benches...otherwise teeth and all will be fallen down.

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it was very hot in the afternoon when the teacher entered.. She tried to switch the fan on, but there was some problem. and then she said" why is fan not oning" (ing form of on)

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teacher in a furious mood...write down ur name and father of ur name

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"shhh... quiet... the principal is revolving around college"

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My manager started like this"Hi, I am Mandeep, Married with two kids"

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"I'll illustrate what i have in my mind" said the professor and erased the board

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"will u hang that calender or else i'll HANG MYSELF

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LIBRARIAN SCOLDE ," IF U WILL TALK AGAIN , I WILL KNEEL DOWN OUTSIDE"

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Chemistry HOD comes and tells us..."My aim is to study my son and marry my daughter

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Tomorrow call ur parents especially mother and father

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why are you looking at the monkeys outside when i am in the class?!"

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Lab assistant said this when my friend wrote wrong code.."I understand. You understand. Computer how understand??

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Seing the principal passing by, the teacher told the noisy class.."Keep quiet, the principal has passed away"

Happy Diwali!!!!!!!!

Wish you all a very very very happy and safe DEEPAVALI!

colorful lamps....beautiful dresses....the sounds of crackers...delicious sweets...get-togethers....sharing light moments with friends and families....THE FESTIVAL OF LIGHTS IS BACK!!!

To All My Blog Readers--->Wishing you and your family a very happy and prosperous DIWALI

ITS VIJAYA DHASAMI TODAY

Its vijayadhasami today and it is believed that what ever you learn today or what ever business you start today is bound to become a great success. Vijayadhasami is specially celebrated in a grand manner by all the artists(mainly by those who are invloved in the dance and musical art forms) as it is on this day, the shishyas go to their guru's place, give the 'guru-dhakshinai' as a token of tribute and thanks giving to them. The guru then blesses his/her student to get all the success in life and teaches a new thing(song or dance or studies) on that day.

At homes, children are asked to read something soon after the pooja believing that they would do well through out their academics.

As instructed by my thatha, i woke up early in the morning, got ready for the pooja and soon after it got over..i was asked to study for a while. i had kept my software engineering book and along with that, my favourite "harry potter series" too. lolz..i just went thru a page from my s/w book and then took out the harry potter 6th part and started reading it.
"the picture above is me and my GURU on vijayadhasami(today)"

Then it was time for me to get ready for music class. i took my shruthi box and a plate full of fruits, beetle leaves(vethalai paaku), etc to giv it to my music teacher. It was just a 10 minutes class today as she had to teach all her other students for vijayadhasami. I gave the guru dhakshinai, seeked her blessings and then she started a new song. Once the class got over, i returned home to sit back and enjoy the special programs in tv.

"happy vijayadhasami to all and wish you attain success in all that you do"

messaging-an addiction

how many messages do you text per day and how many messages fill your inbox in 24 hours...have you ever counted them? i'm sure you will be one among the thousands who have become addicted to texting msgs. and with so many different sms packages provided by the airtel, vodafone, reliance and what not, communication through sms has taken its wildest form specially among the youngsters.

i have a gang of friends messaging me every alternate minute, and the worst part being those msgs will have no meaning, no relevance, nothing and literally nothing. lol..its famously called the "inform all" msgs by our friends circle. the messages wil be of the kind-

• "suda is eating chicken"-inform all



• "viswaa has planned to bunk college today"-inform all



• "deeptha is becoming studious day by day"-infy all

and so many of this kind. it used to be so irritating to recieve msgs like these in the beginning but now, unfortunately or fortunately, i too have become addicted to it. its real fun msging nonsense to a group of friends and getting replies is a even more funny!

and apart from that, the usual gud morning msgs, gud evening and gud nite msgs, forwards, "wat doing" msgs, etc, etc, the list is never ending...and the no. of msgs i send is also never ending..[:P]

i am one of those airtel users with a package having "unlimited" sms and that's really made me an addict to sms-ing. and no wonder it has started bothering my parents too much since the recent past. i know i've been over doing this but as i said, messaging has become an addiction, not only to me but everyone of my age.

well, it has become a serious problem in today's mobile world. i was asked to read articles on this topic(ofcourse, my dad insisted me to) and was shocked to see that there are so many worse cases that you can possibly imagine. "the text messaging syndrome" has hell a lot of consequences that can really shock you. this post is specially to all those who are addicted to msging just as me. just go thru the articles on msg addiction and you will certainly stop or atleast reduce the number of msgs that u send now.

the following passage is from one of the articles i went thru and i felt it might be a start for those who really want to get rid of the "text msging syndrome".

Text messaging syndrome is time consuming and encourages preoccupied conversations which, of course, affects everyone. Emily and David are great friends. As a matter of fact, I'm certain they love each other. However, I have noticed they both experience a common addiction with cell phones.
Numerous teenagers and adults apparently anticipate internal questions such as, "Who has written to me now?" and "How many messages have I received?" Great questions, of course, although I believe it is also beneficial to anticipate everyday moments we often miss. Think about the real beauty of a sunrise, a shower of rain, the fragrance of a flower, a family story passed down to us over time, or perhaps an uninterrupted conversation with your mom.
After an hour’s drive to the airport for my daughter’s return from her spring break to college, I realized the severity of this addiction which I was able to recognize as text messaging syndrome.
She rarely glanced away from her cell phone as she rapidly wrote one message after another. I could not hold my curiosity any longer when I asked, “Do you text message when you’re driving?” Her response, “Yes, but I just use one hand.”
My next question bolted out of my mouth, “Are you able to study, without sending text messages?” “Oh, mom…”
In the event you encounter a teenager or adult with this addiction, I believe it is only fair to share with you the progression of this addiction especially under the best of circumstances.
Evidence of the mild stage of text messaging syndrome is, "It's only 10 cents a message." Although addicting, it sounds harmless with a minimal expense.
Although 300 text messages per month sounds like a lot, her expense was an extra $5.00 per month. Thus, an increasing expense develops into the moderate addiction stage.
Unlimited text messages for $20.00 per month. This option removes the fear of exceeding any limit of text messages, however, this is the severe stage when you realize how much teenagers and adults depend on text messaging.
G. K. Chesterton said, "There is one thing which gives radiance to everything. It is the idea of something around the corner." Hope for the future is important, however, I am not certain Chesterton was referring to anticipation of the next incoming text message which would, of course, need a response.
I’m older so I don’t text message. Perhaps I felt like an outsider. However, I realized the deterioration of verbal communication skills. Her voice startled me, “Mom, I’m listening” she announced as she began the next text message.
Finally, I had to ask her this question, “Will you regret in one month, six months, or a year from now an ordinary moment when you realize you decided to spend time focusing on the next incoming or outgoing text message rather than spend time with your family and loved ones?” Our conversation began again, although we had arrived at the airport.
Everyday moments are often taken for granted. These seemingly insignificant messages distract our attention from the present; moments that only occur once.

THE KALKI DAY

109 years later and he is still in our minds! It was an occasion to remember the contributions of Kalki Krishnamurthy, a freedom fighter, nationalist writer and novelist. The Kalki Krishnamurthy Memorial Awards were distributed to two young artists at the Bharatiya Vidyabhavan Auditorium here on Tuesday on the 109th birth anniversary of Kalki Krishnamurthy The editor of Dinamani, Mr. K. Vaidhyanathan graced the occasion with his presence and presented the awards to singer Gayathri K, and mridangam player, Ganapathy Raman. Comparing his invitation to be present at the occasion, to a Nobel Prize, Mr. Vaidhyanathan was all praises for Kalki and his contributions to the literary world. "Kalki was a great man who commanded respect from all walks of life. His works can be compared to those of Bharathi's with regards to the continuous effort that is put into his writings. In the 19th century when novels were not accepted, every person who read one of Kalki's books always made sure to read all. He gave importance not only to views, but also to news"
Besides the artists, their gurus, Mrs. Suguna Purushottaman and Shri Rangarajapuram Jayaraman were also honoured. Also present during the function was Mr. Kalki Rajendran, son of Kalki. The award ceremony was followed with a performance by the winners Gayathri and Ganapathy Raman, with Hemalatha and Anirudh Adhreya on the violin and kanchira respectively.

Well..i can see you wondering why this piece of information has been put up in my blog. Its just that i was given a wonderful opportunity of initiating this program with my prayer song which i consider very prestigious and a memorable day in my life. The following week, an article about this function had appeared in the tamil weekly-"KALKI" in which a small picture of mine and a few words about my singing were also included, and the pictures that you see are the ones i'm talking about. It was a great evening altogether and looking forward for a lot more opportunities to prove my mettle.

MY TRIP TO SATHANUR

My dad and I had planned to attend the sathanur koil kumbabishekam that was going to be held on the 15th of SEPTEMBER ’08. This is a short travelogue of my trip down south that includes the koil kumbabishekam as the major part of our tour.
It was 8.20 in the late evening when we started from home. I was a little too excited about this trip as it was my first trip with my dad as the only company through out the journey. With my brother jokingly commenting at me and my mom laughing at it, me and my dad started off for a long night drive in our car. Our plan was to pick up my uncle from his place and then head on to vaitheeswaram koil.
We reached pammal exactly at 9pm where my uncle had been awaiting us. Just a five minutes break and all the three of us left the place by 9.05. Mr.murugesan, our driver had accompanied us to the tour but my dad hardly let him drive the car. As car driving is something that he enjoys the most, guess he would really have had a very enjoyable time doing it.
Our first destination was obviously our kula theiva sthalam -vaitheeswaram koil for which we took the dindivanam route. From pammal, we caught the GST road and crossed my college SRM at around 9.50pm. What a colorful night it was, the lightings over tall buildings, highway lightings, and lights beaming out from the Lorries and cars which was a treat to the eyes. It’s very rare that we get to enjoy all such things in our daily routine. And on top of it all, with my dad’s excellent and smooth driving, I almost dozed off to sleep.
It would have been around 11.30pm when my dad woke me up for tea at a small tea shop in a place called “Irayanur” approximately 35kms from pondy. Though it was only a mouthful, it was highly refreshing and we geared up for the highway drive once again. I was listening to music in my i-pod, my uncle having a sound sleep, the driver accompanying my dad in the front and my dad driving-we crossed puthucheri at 12.00am and reached Chidambaram koil at around 1.40am. just as we’d been going, I’d dozed off once again when my dad woke me up saying we’d reached vaitheeswaram koil in less than 5 and a half hours. The time was 2.10 early in the morning. After sending the driver to his hometown-kumbakonam, we lodged our bags and luggage in a small room near the temple and took a nap for a very short while.
At 5.00 am, my dad, uncle and I vacated the room and went into the temple to take the holy dip(snanam) in the koil kulam which is considered auspicious. It is believed that a dip in that holy pond would make you free from all the diseases as the temple is famous for lord Vaitheeswaran. I’d been there many times since childhood but this time, it was a new experience as I already said, it was the only trip without my mom’s company. I was given the responsibility of taking care of my dad, myself and the belongings all myself which was indeed a great task. Once we got ready, we had a very nice dharisanam of the god-vaitheeswaran and the goddess aavudai naayaki and returned to our car. My dad and I went to a near by stall to have our morning break-fast which was a small cup of tea. We usually have a practice of going to the famous “thayyal nayaki” a small hotel where we had our breakfast after every dharisanam when ever we went as a family, but this time it was only this small cup of tea as my uncle had to fast for the "chathurmasiyam viratham".
Thirumanancheri was our next nearest destination which was a sudden inclusion in our trip. The place is famous for lord shiva’s temple(uthvaganaathar well-known as “kalyana suntharanar”). It is believed that a person looking for his/her marriage is blessed to get married soon if he/she visits this temple-kalyana suntharanar koil. From there, we drove to “neruveli” a small village near thirumanancheri. This place is famous for the “utharavaahini kaveri river”. At around 10am, my dad and uncle decided to have another holy dip in this kaveri river. I noticed something strange there- my uncle applying the soil from the banks of the river kaveri on to his body, and to my astonishment, my dad too was following him. When I asked what was that all about, my uncle explained that it was as good as using a soap and that it had a lot of medicinal values. May be it sounded too superstitious to me, but no wonder my dad was amazed by his uncle’s dedication and values of such beliefs. I clicked a few snaps of the place and shot the fast running clear water of the kaveri in my vedio camcorder. All the three of us had our home-made food that we’d packed for our tour. We relaxed there for about an hour and headed off to sathanur.
Just as we started from there, my uncle suggested that we would visit the “vana durgai koil” at kathiramangalam and soon our plans changed all over again. On our way to that temple, we came across another small mariamman koil where kumbabishekam was going on. We were right on time to attend the poornaahuthi which was around 10.40am. And 20 minutes drive from there, we reached the kathiramangalam temple.
I had become pretty exhausted by then, wonder how my dad managed to drive with so much energy. Quite a long drive from there and at 1pm, we reached our final destination “Sathanur”-my dad’s native. I’m sure it would have been a nostalgic experience to him for he kept telling me his old memories and his childhood stories throughout the trip with such an excitement. We went to hari mama’s(my dad's 1st teacher) house where we’d planned to stay for the night. The old lady(hari mama’s wife) was kind enough to welcome us and serve lunch which was around 2 o clock in the noon. After so many hours away from home, I had a “feel good” experience there, a feeling of being “at home” again. Evening at around 6pm, the temple visits began once again. We visited almost all the temples in sathanur ranging from the smallest and the oldest to the biggest and most famous temples. One evening was definitely not enough to admire the nuances of the temples. Mr. and Mrs. Shankar (hari mama’s daughter) had also accompanied us to visit these temples. Wow!! Wat a woman she is! One of the very very few people whom I admire is this lady-Mrs.Raji shankar. It seems she’d been born and brought up in sathanur and no wonder every tom dick and harry knew her so well. She was so friendly, and made me feel comfortable through out my stay in sathanur. We had a sound sleep that night in their house.
Next morning, on the day of kumbabishekam, I woke up at 5am and got dressed up to attend the kumbabishekam. After having breakfast, we went to the temple and the pre-kumbabishekam rituals were going on. My dad was thoroughly enjoying his day, meeting his old friends. I was made to sing a few songs over the mike on stage, another thing that my dad really enjoyed. The temple was getting crowded as time went. Almost the entire village had gathered there to watch this great event. Finally, the kumbabishekam took place in a very grand manner and I had taken few shots in my camera. It was time for lunch, and we all had a great feast in one of the biggest houses in sathanur, and the family was known for their hospitality.
We relaxed for a very short while and I then started packing for my trip back home. It must have been 2pm by the time we started off from the little village. From there, we went to kumbakonam to pick up our driver and headed off to Chennai. Again a long drive and I spent the time listening to music and messaging my friends. Back to Chennai in no time, dropped my uncle at his place and reached home safe. I must agree I missed my mom a real lot, but then altogether it was a wonderful and memorable short tour down south with my dad.